San Diego Renters Are Losing $250K Every 5 Years — Here’s How
- North County Real Estate with Natalya

- Oct 3
- 3 min read

It’s not an exaggeration — it’s math.
If you’re renting in San Diego right now, you could be losing a quarter of a million dollars every five years — and you may not even realize it. Between rent increases, missed tax breaks, and home equity you’re not building, every check you send to your landlord is money you’ll never see again.
Let’s break down how this happens — and why so many people regret not buying sooner.
The High Cost of “Playing It Safe”
A lot of renters think they’re being financially cautious by waiting to buy. But the truth is, in a city like San Diego, waiting costs far more than acting.
The average rent for a 3-bedroom home here is roughly $4,000–$4,500 per month. Over five years, that’s $240,000–$270,000 gone — permanently.
Now compare that to owning.
If you bought a $800,000 home (a realistic price for a 3-bedroom in many San Diego neighborhoods) with 5% down, your total out-of-pocket at closing might be around $60,000.
That’s less than you’ll pay in rent in just 15 months.
But here’s where it gets interesting.
The Math That Changes Everything
Mortgage payment (P&I): ~$4,724/month
Property tax + insurance + PMI: ~$1,180/month
Total monthly payment: ~$5,905/month
At first glance, that looks higher than rent. But that number doesn’t tell the whole story.
Here’s what happens behind the scenes:
~$730/month of that payment goes straight to your loan principal (your equity).
~$1,500/month comes back through tax deductions (mortgage interest + property tax write-offs).
And your home likely appreciates by 3–4% a year, which means $24,000–$32,000 in Year 1 alone.
When you add it up, you’re effectively getting back 70–85% of what you spend on housing — every single year.
The 5-Year Snapshot
Let’s zoom out:
Over five years, here’s what the average San Diego homeowner gains on an $800K purchase:
✅ $50,000 in principal paid down
✅ $125,000 in appreciation (at 3%/yr)
✅ $75,000 in tax savings
That’s roughly $250,000 in total wealth created — the same amount a renter spends and never sees again.
So while renters spend $250K and lose it, homeowners spend roughly the same amount and gain $250K in equity and appreciation.
It’s not even a fair comparison.
Every Year You Wait, You’re Falling Behind
Here’s the real kicker:
Every year you wait to buy, you’re not just missing out on appreciation — you’re starting five years behind everyone who bought when you didn’t.
And with rates currently in the mid-6s (down from last year’s highs), and options to refinance later if they drop further, the timing couldn’t be better.
The biggest myth?That you need 20% down. You don’t.
Many buyers in San Diego are getting into homes today with as little as 5% down, and their payments are competitive with rent. PMI (private mortgage insurance) drops off once you reach around 20% equity — and from there, your costs go down, not up.
Meanwhile, rent will never stop climbing.
The Bottom Line
Renting might feel flexible, but in San Diego’s real estate market, it’s one of the most expensive habits you can have.
Buying a home isn’t about timing the market perfectly — it’s about time in the market.
Because while renters are writing checks that vanish, homeowners are writing checks that come back — through tax savings, appreciation, and long-term wealth.
If you’ve been sitting on the fence, do the math: every 5 years, renters are losing about $250,000 in missed opportunity.
That’s $250K that could have been yours.
If you want to explore this more, I can help and we can schedule a free consultation.



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