top of page
Search

San Diego Renters Are Losing $250K Every 5 Years — Here’s How

  • Writer: North County Real Estate with Natalya
    North County Real Estate with Natalya
  • Oct 3
  • 3 min read

A row of modern coastal homes in San Diego with palm trees and an ocean view at sunset, overlaid with the text “San Diego renters are losing $250K every 5 years — here’s how.”

It’s not an exaggeration — it’s math.


If you’re renting in San Diego right now, you could be losing a quarter of a million dollars every five years — and you may not even realize it. Between rent increases, missed tax breaks, and home equity you’re not building, every check you send to your landlord is money you’ll never see again.


Let’s break down how this happens — and why so many people regret not buying sooner.

The High Cost of “Playing It Safe”


A lot of renters think they’re being financially cautious by waiting to buy. But the truth is, in a city like San Diego, waiting costs far more than acting.


The average rent for a 3-bedroom home here is roughly $4,000–$4,500 per month. Over five years, that’s $240,000–$270,000 gone — permanently.


Now compare that to owning.


If you bought a $800,000 home (a realistic price for a 3-bedroom in many San Diego neighborhoods) with 5% down, your total out-of-pocket at closing might be around $60,000.


That’s less than you’ll pay in rent in just 15 months.


But here’s where it gets interesting.

The Math That Changes Everything


Mortgage payment (P&I): ~$4,724/month

Property tax + insurance + PMI: ~$1,180/month

Total monthly payment: ~$5,905/month


At first glance, that looks higher than rent. But that number doesn’t tell the whole story.

Here’s what happens behind the scenes:


  • ~$730/month of that payment goes straight to your loan principal (your equity).

  • ~$1,500/month comes back through tax deductions (mortgage interest + property tax write-offs).

  • And your home likely appreciates by 3–4% a year, which means $24,000–$32,000 in Year 1 alone.


When you add it up, you’re effectively getting back 70–85% of what you spend on housing — every single year.


The 5-Year Snapshot


Let’s zoom out:


Over five years, here’s what the average San Diego homeowner gains on an $800K purchase:


$50,000 in principal paid down

$125,000 in appreciation (at 3%/yr)

$75,000 in tax savings


That’s roughly $250,000 in total wealth created — the same amount a renter spends and never sees again.


So while renters spend $250K and lose it, homeowners spend roughly the same amount and gain $250K in equity and appreciation.


It’s not even a fair comparison.

Every Year You Wait, You’re Falling Behind


Here’s the real kicker:


Every year you wait to buy, you’re not just missing out on appreciation — you’re starting five years behind everyone who bought when you didn’t.


And with rates currently in the mid-6s (down from last year’s highs), and options to refinance later if they drop further, the timing couldn’t be better.


The biggest myth?That you need 20% down. You don’t.


Many buyers in San Diego are getting into homes today with as little as 5% down, and their payments are competitive with rent. PMI (private mortgage insurance) drops off once you reach around 20% equity — and from there, your costs go down, not up.


Meanwhile, rent will never stop climbing.

The Bottom Line


Renting might feel flexible, but in San Diego’s real estate market, it’s one of the most expensive habits you can have.


Buying a home isn’t about timing the market perfectly — it’s about time in the market.

Because while renters are writing checks that vanish, homeowners are writing checks that come back — through tax savings, appreciation, and long-term wealth.


If you’ve been sitting on the fence, do the math: every 5 years, renters are losing about $250,000 in missed opportunity.


That’s $250K that could have been yours.

If you want to explore this more, I can help and we can schedule a free consultation.


Zoom Consultation
1h
Book Now

 
 
 

Comments


Natalya is a real estate salesperson licensed by the state of California and affiliated with eXp Realty. eXp Realty of California, Inc. is a real estate broker licensed by the state of California and abides by equal housing opportunity laws. License number: eXp Realty CA DRE# 01878277. Natalya Kulik’s license number: CAL DRE 01903247.

All material presented herein is intended for informational purposes only. Information is compiled from sources deemed reliable but is subject to errors, omissions, changes in price, condition, sale, or withdrawal without notice. No statement is made as to the accuracy of any description. All measurements and square footage are approximate. This is not intended to solicit property already listed. Nothing herein shall be construed as legal, accounting, or other professional advice outside of a real estate brokerage.

image 1.png
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • YouTube
bottom of page